When a man you love was abused : a woman's guide to helping him overcome childhood sexual molestation (Book, 2010) [ya.ru]

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He may still feel conflicted about what happened to him—and about the theft of his innocence. I have just returned from a trip to Lancaster, Pennsylvania, for our eleventh grandchild's baby shower. You can read it cover to cover, or just pick some pages at random. He's dire When A Man You Love Was Abused: A Woman's Guide to Helping Him Overcome Childhood Sexual Molestation by Cecil Murphy is written in two parts.

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I am about two-thirds of the way through this book and would highly recommend it to anyone who has either been abused themselves or knows someone who has been abused. I am so grateful that Cecil Murphey wrote this book. Two weeks ago my ex-husband, after 35 years of our being divorced, told me that he had been molested and raped by an uncle who was only 2 years older than him and two of his friends several times over a period of about a year and a half - all three of them were doing this together to my ex-husband. My ex-husband never told anyone during all of these years. I understand so much more about his erratic behavior, inability to connect with people, severe alcoholism which he is now sober, thank you Jesusanger, problems keeping jobs, etc. He had also grown up in an alcoholic, abusive home, so he had no one he could trust to tell when the abuse was going on. He has been a Christian for several years, but was still greatly emotionally and spiritually crippled by what happened. Having a book like this, written from a Biblical and spiritual perspective, has been incredibly helpful to me. I am hoping to have my ex-husband read it soon. I think it will make a big difference for him as well, to see that he hasn't been alone, and isn't alone now. Cec Murphey is an unusually kind and caring person. He was a pastor before he took up writing full time. If you meet him personally, or read one of his books, you'll realize that he will probably know how you feel, regardless. Murphey has written more than 100 books. Some are as-told-to stories, but When a Man You Love Was abused is non-fiction. The book is based on his many questions and discussion with abuse survivors, and his own horrific life experiences. One is six males has experienced unwanted or abusive sexual experiences before the age when a man you love was abused sixteen. Murphey writes to the women who love these men, with sound advice, sympathy and encouragement on how to recognize and cope with the soul-ripping that occurs when little boys endure unspeakable atrocities. Usually there is no one to help or rescue the boy. He holds the filthy secrets inside himself. Cec offers information and practical insight for the women or anyone who love these men. He lends encouragement and a balanced mix of statistics, personal insight, and inspirational stories from other survivors. He also coaches the abused on surviving, even thriving, after their past abuses. He speaks in a gentle tone that soothes the soul, and offers hope. Murphey's closing words to women are encouraging page 256 : Sexual abuse is one of the worst torments a boy can go through. It attacks his physical, spiritual, and psychological integrity. If you are committed to help the adult survivor in your life, you can be a true heroine in his life. I think this book just says it out there, who it was written for, but not altogether. I think anyone who has had any contact or wishes to help someone who has suffered any type of abuse, should read this book. It is one of the most helpful, comprehensive guide to actually helping someone. I applaud the author for having the guts it took to write this book as it is really hard for men to admit they suffered at the hands of another. It is even harder to get the people who really need to read this book, to read it. I could think of several people that I wish would read it. But as the title says, it is written for people, who when someone you love, has been abused. This is a book for mothers, wives, girlfriends, sisters, brothers, fathers, whoever cares enough to actually understand the abused person, wants to know how to help them, reach when a man you love was abused and be there in a way that can actually helpnot harm. I think one of the biggest thing in this book that touched me was the fact that Cecil touched on things bothering a person that have nothing to do with abuse on the surface. He mentions how he hates raspberry jam and it triggered a very bad reaction with him emotionally. He was, as an adult still confused by why it triggered such a reaction for him emotionally, until his sister reminded him that his abuser would use crackers and raspberry jam to lure him to his room. Cecil is gentle, he is caring and really helps people to see that in this horrible pain, there is hope and healing, and even though the scars remain, he has suggestions to help the healing. The second half of the Cecil's book is directed specifically to the women in these men's lives-how they can help him through the healing process by being there for him and encouraging him. Women, this is definitely a book to have on your shelf if the man in your life is struggling with childhood sexual abuse. Special thanks to Danielle Douglas of Douglas Public Relations for sending me a review copy. Cec Murphey has been at it again, writing yet another book to bless and heal and minister. When a Man You Love Was Abused by New York Times bestselling author Cecil Murphey, published by Kregel, is written with the empathy of a survivor who knows the pain experienced by far too many young males. At last, this awkward subject, often avoided and ignored, is addressed honestly and compassionately, opening when a man you love was abused door for many to finally admit and deal with the abuse they experienced as young boys or adolescents. And because the book is directed toward those who love someone who experienced such abuse, the abuse survivor won't have to walk through the healing alone. If someone you love has had such an experience, don't wait another minute to order this book. Then read it and apply it--and be ready to offer real help and healing to the man you love who was once abused.

Perhaps years passed before you knew about his childhood pain. The person requested I not use his name. In her book, , Ann Swindell tells the biblical story of the woman healed by Jesus who had been bleeding for 12 years and makes comparisons with her own personal struggles coping with Trichotillomania, a hair pulling disorder. I think anyone who has had any contact or wishes to help someone who has suffered any type of abuse, should read this book. It also helped show how which is so crucial when we feel h I received this book as part of the First Reads giveaway and I am so glad that I did. The media adopted the term and broadened the meaning. I respect the author for his candid and sincere approach to the topic.